Praying.
He did.
I woke up on Friday night with a deep desire to write
Millie's story. I believe that wake-up call was from the Lord. I climbed out of bed and the words began to spill out onto the page. I didn't write it alone. Rob came alongside me as I shared my heart with him. We spent hours last weekend agonizing over every word. I whispered prayers as we wrote because I knew that her story was God's answer to My Prayer.
My Spinning.
You see, God has been stirring in my heart that I need to be speaking out boldly for the older children in the institutes and orphanages. He has been burdening my heart. They are so easily written off. I know this because I am as guilty as the next person. I always check the age of a child when I see a new listing. I am definitely drawn to the younger ones. I shy away from thinking I could adopt an older child. I am being honest.
But then I am confronted with
Jack.
$2591.00
His deep desire to have a Mom and a Dad.
And
Laurel. Aging out in only a few months.
$3950.00
And I am ashamed of my reluctance. I am ashamed that I am so quick to write them off. To say it is too late. To assume that they are too institutionalized or too disabled to make it in the outside world.
They want families.
They do not consider themselves too old to call someone Mom. Or too disabled to need a Dad.
THEY ARE JUST CHILDREN.
And in that reality - with that before me I know that I need to be bold for their sakes. To do whatever I can to give them a voice.
If My Millie can survive for 30 years in a mental institute and come out and live a rich and full life... If God can take an orphaned and abandoned little girl and REDEEM her life so that in the end she is a BLESSING to people.... Then He can take Jack and Laurel and all the other kids in those institutes and He can Redeem them too. They are not hopeless, lost cases.
THEY ARE JUST CHILDREN WHO ARE LONGING FOR A HOME.
I don't know how to put it any more plainly.
They are just children.
Yes they are disabled in some way or another. Yes they have spent much or all of their lives in an institution. Yes some are terribly damaged. Yes Yes Yes.
But they are children.
And they need families.
They need families who will care for them and watch over them. They need Moms and Dads who will fight to get them the treatments they need. They need the security of knowing that they are not alone in this world. They need most of all to know the God who made them and loves them. They need to hear and come to love and believe the stories of Jesus. They need this above all else.
They don't need a big house or their own bedroom. They don't need fine clothes or expensive toys. They have NOTHING now so anything you give them is better than what they have ever ever had. They don't need the perfect family. They just need someone to cross the ocean for THEM. They need parents. They need to know that for the rest of their lives they will be firmly planted in a family. Surrounded. Protected. Loved.
This week My Spencer appeared on the My Family Found Me Page on
Reece's Rainbow. HE HAS A FAMILY! He is going to be rescued soon. I PRAISE GOD for that news. My eyes leak tears at the thought. I cannot wait to see Spencer safely in their arms.
But Jack still needs a family.
A family to make sure he gets the medicine he needs. Right now he is being taken care but in just a few short years, Jack is going to be out on the streets. He is one of the 'lucky' ones who will not be institutionalized. Instead he will age out of the internat where he lives and he will be on his own. At the very very young age of 15 or 16. Without any skills. Without any knowledge of the outside world. Without any idea how to take care of himself. Without any way to get the medicine that he needs. Friendless. Penniless. At the age when kids here are at the end of their high school years, enjoying their friends, going to the prom, learning independence yet always under the watchful care of their parents - Jack will be out.on.the.streets.
I can't imagine.
This is the cry of his heart:
"What do I need to do for a Mom to come? Do you know where she is? Is she looking for me?"
He doesn't care about the perfect family. He just wants to be loved.
And Laurel.
She has less than 5 months before her chances of a family are GONE.
I wish I had a ton of pictures to show you of Laurel but all I have is this one picture of a beautiful girl in a wheelchair.
She is in a good place now but not for long. Not for long. Laurel is destined to spend the rest.of.her.life in the mental institute because she is physically disabled.
Those who met her recently described her as very smart and very friendly. She is disabled in body but not in mind. Not in spirit. She has Aaron's condition (arthrogryposis) and it is TREATABLE. It is not life-threatening. It does not get any worse than it is now. It only gets better. I would venture to say that Aaron's doctor in Philly would move heaven and earth to get Laurel walking.
Please. I know that God has been moving in hearts for these two precious children. Please. Consider. Pray.
And Give. Laurel's adoption costs are going to be around $24,000.00. Jack's around $35,000.00. Every single dollar into their accounts helps ease the terror as families stand on the edge of the cliff and count the cost. You may not be able to adopt these two treasures but you can take part in helping someone else do it.
UNDERSTAND THIS - LAUREL IS JUST ABOUT OUT OF TIME. Her grant account needs to go up NOW.
Please give. Please pray. Please consider.
You can donate to
JACK here and
LAUREL here. I would love to see both of their grant accounts rise significantly. Money should NOT be the reason why either of these kids can't find homes!!
If not these two kids then consider the hundreds of other older kids who are LOST and ALONE and helpless without you.
Brent Hanson
EMMITT
TYLER
VICTORIA
HEATH
MAXIM
They are just children. They don't care if they are older. They don't care. They just want Mamas and Papas to call their own.
They are Just Children.
P.S. - I'm adding one more precious treasure onto this post.......
Her name is
Bernadette
Be Still My Heart.
Like Laurel - She ages out in only a FEW MONTHS.
She has been BLESSED with an extra chromosome!!!
This is what her description says about her...
She’s a lovely little girl in appearance. Despite being 15, she looks about 8 years old, and a petite 8 at that. She is a sweet little girl with plenty of energy. She likes what most 8 year olds would like- dolls, playing with toys, watching cartoons.
Like all the others - She is just a child in desperate need of a home. If she doesn't find one then she will spend the entire rest of her days in a mental institution!!!